About Buyadate.org

Buyadate.org is an online database of members looking to browse, buy and/or sell time. Buyadate.org is more than just a 'social network', it is intended to be a 'social utility'. The goal is to be an empowerment website for entrepreneurs and humanitarians- and to help channel funding into the nonprofit sector.

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Ways to Buy

Member buyers can browse member profiles, use search features to locate seller members based on a wide variety of criteria. Upon finding a member seller of interest, a buyer can contact the seller. Members may verify and get to know each other better (through email, video, chat or links), or clarify details of the date with negotiation. A member buyer may request a date (or further information) with any member seller, but it is entirely up to the seller as to whether or not to accept the requested date (or share further information).

Member sellers can designate which payment methods are accepted- or members can negotiate to utilize our Escrow Service which holds the payment until the date is satisfactorily completed. It is up to the members to choose and agree what they prefer. See Suggestions/Tips section for more tips and issues best to discuss and negotiate prior to a date.

There are a variety of ways a member can buy a date:

Search and Buy a date:

Search by name/keyword/category settings choices (or try our Advanced Search page for additional criteria to refine your search), and buy a date with someone offering their time or skill for a set price. Or buy a date with someone who is auctioning off a date.

Get to know the seller better, through email, chat, or video. You can pay for a date, with a variety of payment methods, dependent on what you agree to with the member seller - see our Payment Center for various payment options. Want to learn more about a particular member, then view their profile, or comments section, or the discussion boards to get further information.

Create a Date Wanted:

This is a 'Date Wanted' listing, that allows members to list a specific type of 'date' they are looking to buy, and what they would pay for it. As a Buyadate member you can design your ideal date (i.e. flowers, dinner, and a movie), offer a price you'd be willing to buy for some enjoyable company, and then let the offers come in as they may. You can check out, on an ongoing basis, the profiles of any sellers looking to accept your offer to provide you such a date, and then you can select and buy whomever fits well what you're looking for.

For example, a member buyer can create and post in the Date Wanted section of their member profile "I want to learn how to take the perfect 3 point jump shot, from a current or ex-professional/ college basketball player, I want a 2 hour session to practice form and shots, willing to pay $5,000"- and then the member buyer can let the offers roll in, and pick whomever is best suited. A member seller can use the browse feature of our site to search for 'Date Wanted', and view the many types of dates wanted by other members.

Create a Date Wanted is like a "Date Wanted" ad, only better! Member buyers can ask for dates they want and member sellers can search through these Date Wanted ads and respond with an offer.

Creating a Date Wanted post is easy- all you need to do is:

  • Create a Date Wanted post on your member profile
  • Describe in detail what you are looking for
  • Receive an email whenever a seller responds to your Date Wanted post

How Create a Date Wanted works for Buyers:

1. Buyers can create a Date Wanted post from the Date Wanted section in their member profile.

2. Describe in detail the date you are looking for. Be as specific as possible so that sellers can best match your request. Help sellers find your Date Wanted postings by using keywords or placing it in the appropriate category.

3. View your Date Correspondence tab at your Message Center. This is where sellers will respond to your Date Wanted postings.

4. Manage, delete, edit your Date Wanted posts from your member profile page.

5. Receive a correspondence at your Message Center when a seller responds to your Date Wanted postings. You can check out, on an ongoing basis, the profiles of any sellers looking to accept your offer to provide you such a date. Sellers can also ask you a question to get more information about what you are looking for.

6. Select the member that best suits your what you're looking for, and correspond with them. The member seller can correspond about the date details, payment arrangements can be further clarified, and you both can decide whether to accept the date.

7. If you want to end your Date Wanted post and stop receiving responses, you can delete the post at any time. Or if your date has been fulfilled, and you took it down, you can easily repost it.